Monday, October 10, 2011

Saying Goodbye

9 October 2011

Dear Dad,

Well mate, we scattered your ashes.

It was a beautiful Day, clear and calm, and unusually warm

Mum, the Harrisons, the Newths, Paula, Andy and Sam came up to scatter your ashes on the front block. We originally planned to scatter you up by the first gate, but we were thwarted by too much grass on the top track. Can you Believe that? TOO MUCH GRASS! You've never seen anything like it.

So once it became apparent we weren't getting any further up the hill we quickly concoted a plan B, and found a suitably monumental stone to scatter your ashes near, and plant the Grandma Roberts Rose Jenny carefully selected out of the garden.

Anyway, pictures speak a thousand words:

 The View

 Your Rock

Paula, Mum, Sam, Case and Jen getting to the spot 

Mike and Lucy in front of your rock

 Your Rose

 Mike, Case, Mum and Sam digging the hole for your Briar Rose

Case, Jen, Andy, Sam, Mum and Paula observing the digging

Mike,  Cam, Jae and Mike

The boys  

 Look at the grass! Unbelievable!

We buried about half of the ashes under the Rose

And put flowers around the base of it (Case and Lucy) 





You'd like it up there, it's a good spot.

And the rock can be seen from almost anywhere on the property - perfect.

Love you Dad

Cath xoxox

Thursday, October 6, 2011

Happy Birthday

6 October 2011

Dear Dad,

Well mate, the god awful year of 'firsts' just keeps rolling.

Today would have been your 65th birthday, you would have been eligible to retire this year, and you were going to get tickets to go to Elton John with Mum in the new Stadium for your birthday. But instead you're never going to enjoy a single day of retirement, and Me and Jenny are going with Mum instead.

I really missed you today Dad.

I really miss you full stop.

We had an incident on Wednesday night where the wrong fuel type ended up in the wrong vehicle, and the first thing I thought was 'God I need to ring Dad and ask about this!'

But it's OK, we sorted it - even if you're not here to bail me out of any mechanical misadventures you at least bred enough confidence into me to stay calm in a situation and sort it out. So thanks.

I just miss you Dad.

I really bloody miss you.

Happy Birthday.

Love Cath
xoxox